Date with confidence, at your own pace

Your safety comes first. We combine AI with real human moderators to screen content as it's uploaded, spot trouble early, and give you the tools to stay in control, so you can focus on getting to know someone.

Five layers of protection, working together

From the moment someone joins to the day you meet, these are the checks and tools working in the background.

Identity & verification

Know who's real, without handing over personal documents.

  • ID verification (blue tick): optional government ID check with a visible badge, which cuts catfishing.
  • Video verification: a live check with a moderator that confirms it's really them, no documents needed.
  • Age assurance: AI age estimation with extra checks where needed, keeping under-18s out.

Privacy & control

You decide what's shared, with whom, and when.

  • Safe usernames: your real name and email are never shown on your profile.
  • Location privacy: members see your nearest town or city, never your address or live location.
  • Instant blocking: block anyone and they can no longer contact you or see you.
  • Easy reporting: report a member or a post in a couple of taps.

Community trust

How members keep each other accountable.

  • Member ratings: every member has a reputation score built from how they behave.
  • One-click feedback: give any interaction a thumbs up or down in a single click.
  • Off-platform alerts: a warning if someone pushes to move the chat to WhatsApp or similar, a common scam tactic.

Active protection

AI and real people working before harm reaches you.

  • Behaviour monitoring: AI spots unusual activity early, from scammers to bots.
  • Content moderation: photos, videos and text are screened on upload by AI and human reviewers.
  • Swift takedowns: fast removal of unauthorised or harmful content.
  • Explicit image protection: sensitive images are blurred, with a warning, before you see them.

Support & standards

Here when you need us, and held to industry best practice.

  • 24/7 human support: a real team on chat, phone and messaging.
  • Safe dating guidance: tips and reminders built into the site.
  • Secure infrastructure: PCI-compliant cloud hosting with full SSL encryption.
  • Industry standards: part of the Online Dating and Discovery Association.

A few simple habits for a safe first date

Most first dates are just a nice coffee. These habits keep it that way.

Meet somewhere public

Choose a busy café or park for the first few dates, and get yourself there and back.

Tell a friend

Let someone you trust know where you're going, who with, and when you expect to be home.

Keep the kids out of it at first

Get to know someone properly before you share your children's names, school or routines.

Stay on Mums Date Dads

Keep chatting here until you're sure. Pressure to move to another app is a red flag.

Questions or concerns?

Our support team is here 24/7. Reach out any time.

Contact support

Meet other parents, safely.

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