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Frequently asked questions
Quick answers about joining, membership, safety and privacy. Can't find what you need? Our support team is here 24/7.
Is Mums Date Dads free?
Yes. Creating your profile and using Classic membership is free. You get a full profile, can browse members, receive daily match suggestions, send a limited number of messages each day, reply to messages from VIP and VIP Plus members, and verify your ID for free.
What do VIP and VIP Plus add?
VIP unlocks unlimited messaging, advanced search filters, members-only chat rooms, private group chats and the chance to see everyone who likes you. VIP Plus adds exclusive matches, a boosted profile, the top spot in your matches' daily suggestions, and your messages and likes seen first. Compare every feature.
How much does membership cost?
VIP starts at £9.99 a month on a 12-month plan (£119.88), or £24.95 for a single month. VIP Plus starts at £17.34 a month on a 12-month plan (£208.05), or £34.24 for a single month. See every plan and price.
Do paid memberships renew automatically?
Weekly, monthly, 3-month and 6-month plans renew automatically at the same price. The 12-month plan is a single payment and does not renew.
Who will I meet?
Single parents across the UK. Around two-thirds of members are aged between 35 and 54. See members near you.
Is it safe?
Safety comes first. Every member can verify their ID for free, content is screened by AI and human moderators, and you can block or report anyone instantly. Our support team is available 24/7. Read about how we keep you safe.
Will people see my real name or address?
No. You choose a username, and your real name and email are never shown on your profile. Other members see only your nearest town or city, never your address or live location.
Do I have to share details about my children?
No. You decide what to share and when. You can mention your family set-up on your profile if you want to, but there's no need to share your children's names or routines, and we'd suggest you don't until you know someone well.
Can I use it on my phone?
Yes. Mums Date Dads works in any phone or computer browser and can be added to your home screen like an app. iPhone and Android apps are available in selected markets.
What if someone makes me uncomfortable?
Block them straight away and they can no longer contact you or see your profile. You can also report them in a couple of taps, and our support team is on hand 24/7.
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